It was the winter of 1983. I was a senior in high school. I had told my parents that I didn't plan to go to college that fall. So I didn't apply to any schools. As a parent today, the thought of this terrifies me. A college degree is a ticket to lifelong opportunities. So … Continue reading Fail forward: an origin story
I'm neither a musician nor a composer, but I do love music. And one song has me listening to it over and over again. I've been trying to deconstruct why that's so. Here goes my attempt to explain the perfection of Billie Eilish's "I Love You". First, the song is slow and spare. Very few … Continue reading Did Billie Eilish write the perfect love song?
I'm playing around with a book concept. Something I probably won't get to writing for a while, given all that's going on in my life. But the central premise is that all forms of personal and professional growth are borne of risk-taking and failure. This isn't a new idea. So why don't we take those … Continue reading Fail forward?
I've been thinking a lot about leadership lately, as I make the transition from McAfee to my new role at Barracuda Networks. As I was leaving McAfee, I heard from a lot of folks expressing appreciation for my leadership and contributions. Some comments were about positive changes I drove at the organizational level and other … Continue reading Leadership is a privilege
Rob J. wrote me an email a couple years back, out of the blue. We'd lost touch since our days in Boston, as close friends back in our 20's. His email told me how he appreciated our friendship from those distant times past. My first response was sorta cynical. I thought maybe he was in … Continue reading On gratitude
Why do leaders lead? For some, it could be for the money, power, or notoriety. For me and probably many others, the reason for being a leader is the ability to positively affect the careers – and therefore the lives - of others. That’s what gets me out of bed every day, ready to face … Continue reading Why I lead
A female colleague told me this recently while we were discussing the Brett Kavanaugh nomination process. I was incredulous. “You’re certain it’s 100%?”, I asked. “Absolutely”, she replied. It doesn’t stop there. I went to a candlelight vigil for Dr. Ford a couple weeks ago (an aside: I was there because I wanted her claim … Continue reading “100% of my female friends have been sexually assaulted”